Marriage Advice

You can't change your spouse/significant other- You will FAIL and end up frustrated, angry and disappointed EVERYTIME.

One of the biggest misleading qoutes about Divorce is, over 50% of all couples in end Divorce. Actually, only 2% of all marriages end in Divorce.

Every Marriage is 50% give and take. The easiest way to achieve this is to take turns making the small decisions and compromise on the big ones.

To recieve more love, you have to love yourself first and foremost, be more loving.

"Happy marriages begin when we marry the ones we love and they blossom when we love the ones we marry." Tom Mullen

Marriages are not created overnight, they take work. If you are not ready to work and get down in the trenches, then you are not ready to get married.

Do not give YOUR spouse/significant what you need, give them what THEY need.

Mature love isn't just a feeling. Feelings change all the time..

True love is not dependent on how you feel or what someone does or doesn't do. True love is how you feel about the other person at ALL times.

Love means to Please....... If you please more, you will get more Love.

If you want a mutually fulfilling relationship with mate, then stop expecting him or her to be able to read your mind because they CAN'T.

       Here are the four(4) senses of Love

1) Seeing

2) Feeling

3) Hearing

4) Experiencing

    Four Steps to get more Love from your partner.......

1) Find out how you spouse needs to recieve love

2) Close eyes and envision your spouse meeting your love needs & treating you how you want to be treated.

3) Speak only GOOD things about your partner

4) Treat your mate as though they are the person you envision in step 2...

 One of the biggest advice I give to all couples is that, Marriage is a sacred pledge between two people to honor, respect,encourage & support one another. To be there for each other in good times as well as the bad times, to lift each other up when one is down and to ALWAYS have the other's best interest in mind.

Marriage is a partnership and NOT a dictatorship.